August 12, 2013

Welcome Baby Toby!

Melissa & Shaun have had a handsome boy!
Toby Shaun was born on the 31st July at 5.24pm.

He weighed in at 4200g (9lb4oz) and is 54cms long.

Toby is settling in okay and Beth is curious about our new family member. Melissa says Shaun and herself are figuring out how to balance the needs of both our little ones and each other.

God bless you all heaps as you bond together as a new family - he is lovely! Congratulations!
 

August 5, 2013

Welcome Baby Liam!

Liam Antonius was born on the 14th June at 12.15am.  He weighed in at 3900g and was 56cm long.

Helen had a water birth! (I loved my water births.)

Most of us have had a few cuddles now and think he's perfect!

July 12, 2013

Happy Birthday Lokesh!

This cute little guy turned six this year! WonderMums has been supporting him for over 2 years now, and we really appreciate every dollar that you all have donated to him. Read here for more information about who he is... and you can read his cute as letters!

On Tuesday, you all raised $50.00 towards his sponsorship. Thank you!

I look forward to seeing how his life turns out, and what he gets to do later on with his education. It is such a privilege being involved in giving him the chance that we all just ... take for granted here.

Happy Birthday, little guy!

June 25, 2013

Sharpie on Mugs...

Oooh, how cool are these?
Ladies, just note, these are NOT dishwasher friendly!
So you have your mug, what now? Well, first you wait 24 hours, THEN put it in the oven, turn it onto 180deg C and bake it for 30mins once the oven is at temperature. Then leave it in there to totally cool down.

Again - they don't like the dishwasher.

Have fun!

June 24, 2013

Littlies Magazine, Best of their Parenting Tips

In the 100th issue, they had 3 pages of tips... I've had this little mag in my loo and I read a few each day. I thought I'd share what I considered to be the best, with you! This first one, is one I tell every new Mother...

"Don't be afraid to trust yourself. Your instincts are usually right, and Mum knows best!" - Tracey Topp, Cosy Toes.

"When I kiss my two boys goodnight, I say, 'How did I get to be such a lucky mummy to have the two best sons in the world?' I think that is what parenting is all about - instilling a deep-down sens of belonging." - Fran McInnes, Director of Breastmates

"Have fun. It's really as simple as that. it's true they grow like wildfire, so enjoy it - every age and stage brings it's own small challenges, and enormous joys." - Miriama Kamo, TV presenter & Mum


"As a mum with a special-needs child, I'd say, choose your battles. If my son wants to wear pink gumboots and a green Christmas hat to school, I let him - after all, it's only clothing." - Catroina Greig, Littlies reader

"Hugs, hugs and more hubs. A mum's hug lasts long after she lets go." - Lesley Williamson, Littlies Founder/Director

"Take time for yourself, whether it's sleeping, taking a relaxing bath, or reading in peace for 10 minutes!" - Belinda Simon, Director of Pregoli

"You'll get lots of advice from everyone. Listen to those you respect, and choose the advice that feels the best fit for you and your baby." - Karen Guillialand CEO NZ College of Midwives

"Be who you want your children to see and be. If you don't want them to see you do it, hear you say it, or know you did it and tell everyone else you said it... Don't do it or say it!" - Jules Cronin, Littlies Reader

And two of my personal favourites:

"Don't make their problem your problem... They'll only change the behaviou when it's making their life difficult, not yours." - Nigel Latta, Clinical Psychologist

"If you have had a truly ghastly day, go and gaze at your child when they are asleep. They look so calm, vulnerable and beautiful and it is much easier to remember that you love them, and will do it all over again tomorrow." - Diane Levy, Family Therapist.

May 14, 2013

Loving Your Body, by Catherine

Today we talked about the importance of loving our bodies and appreciating just how much they have served us over the years.  I am so grateful to God for giving me a body that housed and fed my two beautiful children for a time and that keeps going even though at times I don't always treat it how I know I should.

Psalm 139 talks about how our bodies are fearfully and wonderfully made and the more I learn about how the human body works the more I agree with this. I find that when my motivation to exercise is about caring for my future body for both myself and my family I tend to stick to things a lot more than if it’s just about how I look or how I think I look because the truth is I will never look like a supermodel no matter what I do… in fact supermodels in real life don’t even look like the supermodels in the magazines.

Seeing as our bodies do so much for us it seems only right to give a little back basically so our bodies can keep doing what they were designed to do in serving us in so many ways. 

One of the ways we can do this is through exercise or as I like to call it 'training for life'.  I talked and demonstrated today a few exercises you can do at home and ways to fit exercise in when you have a young family.

I think a good place to start is do something you enjoy doing, that way you're more likely to stick to it. As exercise is designed to put stress on your body in order to adapt it you may not always like it but a bit of huff and puff can be good for us.  It's important though to stop if you feel any pain especially chest pain or joint pain or if you feel unwell, dizzy or faint or  have trouble breathing.  Out of your comfort zone might be normal but pain and unwellness is not, this is especially important to note if you haven't done anything for a while.  Take things slowly to start with but set yourself some goals, you're more likely to stick with it if you do.  It could even be something like running for 10minutes without stopping, or swimming 12 laps of the pool, you'll feel great once you've achieved it and then you can move onto the next goal.  Aim to do some cardio and some strength training every week.  You can break it up 3 bouts of 10mins can be as good as 30mins in one go.  And if all else fails snackercise.. 2 minutes worth of star jumps is better than nothing if that’s all you can manage for one day.  The good news is housework can count to.  Try doing squats when hanging out the washing instead of bending with your back.  By the end of a few loads you would have done about 50 squats.. not a bad effort. Have fun and enjoy loving your bodies.

Please remember as I stated today I am not an expert. I have loads of passion, some knowledge and a little bit of experience so if you do have concerns about anything consult your doctor.  Also I should mention too that you shouldn’t start anything new exercise wise if you are pregnant without discussing it with you LMC first.


"Thanks so much, Catherine, for the time you put into this talk today - we appreciate it!"

May 13, 2013

Happy Mothers Day, Mums!

Mums hold a special place in God's heart.
A note from Monique:
Mothers are designed so preciously...
With an ability to love our offspring at first sight,
Desiring to nurture and grow them even at our own cost.
There’s a lion-like fierceness in our readiness to protect,
And in our willingness to love no matter what!

Coupled with a loving acceptance of who our children really are,
Is the gift of seeing them as fabulous, both with bumps and treasures.
Mother’s are part of a miracle:
Seeing pieces of our hearts given to each child,
Yet that heart still somehow, staying fully functional.

The bible says God created male and female in His image.
We tend to think of God with mainly masculine traits.
However, stop and consider all that he packed into a woman.
Strength, softness, unconditional love, delight, warmth...
All these parts of himself, he entwined together into a Mother.

If we, who are merely human, are able to feel all that towards our children,
Imagine the magnitude of what He feels for us!
Mothers hold a special place in God’s heart,
For He placed a special part of Himself into us...


A note from Jo: Thinking about what to write for Mothers day on our blog, I decided this post from Josh’s birth in my blog said it all really…

 At 5.40am on Sunday June 8th our sweet 7lb 8oz baby boy was born! As far as births go, Josh's was really good (but still flipping sore! And it was bit scary when he went blue twice and we had to go to Middlemore - but all was fine in the end) and ever since my whole world has changed! I'm so in love with my baby boy and so enjoying being his Mummy! I can't believe that I had lived 30 years of life without knowing this love I have for my son and not have felt more empty or something. I mean my life and my heart are just so much more full now! And it has made me love God even more now that I have a small inkling of how He must feel about all of us. Also it made me love Mike even more (if that's possible) because I see so much of him in our son and it's just added a whole new dimension to our marriage too. The only thing I can complain about is that it's going too fast!!!